• Peacepath@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Previous answers are both great. I would just add to try it at a time both partner are in the mood for it, and without pressure yourselves. May be it doesn’t make it for one or both of you ; or maybe you would in fact like it once you try it. I don’t think stress and sex are good friends. And so I see communication, understanding, and common will are keys of good experiences. (Even, and especially, when the output of the experience is “this is not my thing”)