Previous answers are both great. I would just add to try it at a time both partner are in the mood for it, and without pressure yourselves. May be it doesn’t make it for one or both of you ; or maybe you would in fact like it once you try it.
I don’t think stress and sex are good friends. And so I see communication, understanding, and common will are keys of good experiences. (Even, and especially, when the output of the experience is “this is not my thing”)
Previous answers are both great. I would just add to try it at a time both partner are in the mood for it, and without pressure yourselves. May be it doesn’t make it for one or both of you ; or maybe you would in fact like it once you try it. I don’t think stress and sex are good friends. And so I see communication, understanding, and common will are keys of good experiences. (Even, and especially, when the output of the experience is “this is not my thing”)