Vaginas lose elasticity as people get older. But this wouldn’t explain depth.
You and your partners could have subtly learned better techniques for your bodies. I used to get cervical trauma way more when I starfished with spry young jackhammers.
Nerves. Women who are used to sex know how to relax and how to get themselves in the mood.
Size of the woman doesn’t indicate the size of the vagina. Just like dudes and dick size.
Small sample group/cognitive bias. You haven’t slept with enough women or taken proper notes, so your anecdote might be incorrect.
What does ‘bottoming out’ mean, in terms of PiV sex?
Is this… head of the penis hitting a wall, the cervix?
Is this… absolutely zero seperation between basically the pelvic bones of both partners?
I am apparently too old to understand this phrase, I’ve not heard it used in this context before.
Like… I’ve been with enough women of varying body types and ages to agree with everything you’ve said here.
Some girls have smaller or larger, or tighter or looser vaginas… maybe some general correlation with just, height and pelvic width, but lots of variability, gals that do their kegels religiously are something else lol.
Also just actual sex position makes a big difference in terms of how uh, far you can get in there, how ‘filled’ a woman will tell you she feels.
Same with the uh, amount of local padding, both for the gal and the guy.
Bottoming Out is hitting the cervix. I’ve heard people use it for complete insertion of the dick, tangling pubes so to speak, but they’re wrong.
Yes, position is a factor. The vagina is oriented on an angle, if you imagine drawing a line from the opening to the base of the spine, though it is flexible and can move around quite a bit amongst all the loose, squishy stuff in there. Since the majority of the nerves are concentrated at the “front,” positions with the penis coming at you from behind can put a lot more pressure on the feely parts.
I… would have used a crass term more like ‘kidney punching’ to indicate that, but w/e I guess?
‘Bottoming out’ is also confusing to me because this just makes me think of ‘bottoming’, either being physically beneath someone during sex, or being receptive, or submissive mentally…
…it also makes me think of, you know, bottoming out a car, high centering it… which doesn’t really make sense as a physical analogy to… basically piledriving a bit too deep.
But anyway, yeah, I’ve often been able to get much deeper, sometimes unintentionally painfully deep, ‘bottoming out’ I guess, via basically doggy or prone boning or reverse cowgirl, than with some kind of frontal/missionary derived position…
… though if the gal is limber enough to have her legs held up and bent/moved around, and you put a pillow under her tailbone, or just be standing and have her clasped around you, that can also work pretty well… as you say, all about the angles, where in particular a lady’s gspot is, how much clitoral stimulation she does (or sometimes doesn’t) need from whatever the position allows for…
But, if a lady has a rather bodacious booty… well I’m kinda on the skinnier side, and I’m not super jacked, so I’ve had a few such gals where I just actually cannot push all that cushion out of the way l, gotta find some angle / position where that is less of a factor.
I think other relevant factors would be:
actual strength of quality of the erection, basically how hard/firm the dick actually is
how exactly a guy is curved
I don’t have like a perione’s (sp?) level wacky tilt or bend, but i do have a slight uh, upward curve, compared to… well I guess at least most dicks i see in porn, that often tend to be basically just straight… ive uh, seen and handled a few other dicks in person, but I definitely more lean toward enjoying the XX body plan, as you seem to tend to as well.
But yeah, I think you mentioned elsewhere, or somebody did, that having a moderate bit of a curve is… kind of almost equivalent to just having more volume overall, as it uh, hits and strokes different inside the vagina, kinda makes it bend in ways that a purely straight one doesn’t, can make it just visually seem larger than it might literally be?
I dunno, would you agree with that, or no, or ‘it depends?’
A few things could be happening here.
Vaginas lose elasticity as people get older. But this wouldn’t explain depth.
You and your partners could have subtly learned better techniques for your bodies. I used to get cervical trauma way more when I starfished with spry young jackhammers.
Nerves. Women who are used to sex know how to relax and how to get themselves in the mood.
Size of the woman doesn’t indicate the size of the vagina. Just like dudes and dick size.
Small sample group/cognitive bias. You haven’t slept with enough women or taken proper notes, so your anecdote might be incorrect.
As you seem keen to explain things to people:
What does ‘bottoming out’ mean, in terms of PiV sex?
Is this… head of the penis hitting a wall, the cervix?
Is this… absolutely zero seperation between basically the pelvic bones of both partners?
I am apparently too old to understand this phrase, I’ve not heard it used in this context before.
Like… I’ve been with enough women of varying body types and ages to agree with everything you’ve said here.
Some girls have smaller or larger, or tighter or looser vaginas… maybe some general correlation with just, height and pelvic width, but lots of variability, gals that do their kegels religiously are something else lol.
Also just actual sex position makes a big difference in terms of how uh, far you can get in there, how ‘filled’ a woman will tell you she feels.
Same with the uh, amount of local padding, both for the gal and the guy.
I love explaining things.
Bottoming Out is hitting the cervix. I’ve heard people use it for complete insertion of the dick, tangling pubes so to speak, but they’re wrong.
Yes, position is a factor. The vagina is oriented on an angle, if you imagine drawing a line from the opening to the base of the spine, though it is flexible and can move around quite a bit amongst all the loose, squishy stuff in there. Since the majority of the nerves are concentrated at the “front,” positions with the penis coming at you from behind can put a lot more pressure on the feely parts.
Aha perfect, thank you for the explanation!
I… would have used a crass term more like ‘kidney punching’ to indicate that, but w/e I guess?
‘Bottoming out’ is also confusing to me because this just makes me think of ‘bottoming’, either being physically beneath someone during sex, or being receptive, or submissive mentally…
…it also makes me think of, you know, bottoming out a car, high centering it… which doesn’t really make sense as a physical analogy to… basically piledriving a bit too deep.
But anyway, yeah, I’ve often been able to get much deeper, sometimes unintentionally painfully deep, ‘bottoming out’ I guess, via basically doggy or prone boning or reverse cowgirl, than with some kind of frontal/missionary derived position…
… though if the gal is limber enough to have her legs held up and bent/moved around, and you put a pillow under her tailbone, or just be standing and have her clasped around you, that can also work pretty well… as you say, all about the angles, where in particular a lady’s gspot is, how much clitoral stimulation she does (or sometimes doesn’t) need from whatever the position allows for…
But, if a lady has a rather bodacious booty… well I’m kinda on the skinnier side, and I’m not super jacked, so I’ve had a few such gals where I just actually cannot push all that cushion out of the way l, gotta find some angle / position where that is less of a factor.
I think other relevant factors would be:
actual strength of quality of the erection, basically how hard/firm the dick actually is
how exactly a guy is curved
I don’t have like a perione’s (sp?) level wacky tilt or bend, but i do have a slight uh, upward curve, compared to… well I guess at least most dicks i see in porn, that often tend to be basically just straight… ive uh, seen and handled a few other dicks in person, but I definitely more lean toward enjoying the XX body plan, as you seem to tend to as well.
But yeah, I think you mentioned elsewhere, or somebody did, that having a moderate bit of a curve is… kind of almost equivalent to just having more volume overall, as it uh, hits and strokes different inside the vagina, kinda makes it bend in ways that a purely straight one doesn’t, can make it just visually seem larger than it might literally be?
I dunno, would you agree with that, or no, or ‘it depends?’
My friend, I have no idea what the question is supposed to be. You’re probably referring to the comment I made on the main post here.