Do you care if your partner has had a lot of partners before you; does it turn you on that she has had a lot of dick inside her or do you absolutely get sick at the notion of the idea?
Do you care if your partner has had a lot of partners before you; does it turn you on that she has had a lot of dick inside her or do you absolutely get sick at the notion of the idea?
I don’t really care about the number of prior partners a current partner has had per se…
What I care about is mindset/kink compatability and whether or not they actually know and can communicate what they do and don’t want in the bedroom.
In my experience, there is next to no correlation between how many partners someone has had and how actually good they are at having and enjoying sex.
If its a fuckbuddy/fling situation, body count doesn’t matter either way.
If its a committed monogamous relationship, well, as long as they can actually be monogamous, again, doesn’t really matter.
I’ve been in both kinds of situations, off and on…
I’m more impressed/repulsed by your abilities in bed than I am of your body count, some ‘much-sex-havers’ are terrible at foreplay, communication, actual physical technique, some ‘very-little-sex-havers’ are amazing at all of that.