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  • Caucausing isn’t really comparable to coalitions in my opinion, because all the formalisms are missing.

    Bernie Sanders has no actual power within the party, no matter how many people voted Democrats because of him.

    Compare the situation to an actual multi-party system with coalitions. Sanders would have his own party and there would be 1-3 other parties that are currently part of the Democratic party. Each of these parties would collect separate vote shares which would lead to some of these parties being larger and others smaller. Voters would have to choice to express which exact political direction they prefer instead of just having a binary choice.

    After the election, coalitions would be formed. These coalitions wouldn’t have to be along the current party lines, but e.g. moderate republicans and moderate democrats could form a coalition with eachother. This way, coalition-based multi-party systems tend towards moderate compromises, while two-party systems tend towards extremism.

    In a multi-party system centrists represent reason and compromise, whereas in a two-party system they represent boring blandness.

    In a coalition, each of the coalition partners hold power, because everyone of them can end the coalition. This means, more compromise is necessary and someone like Sanders cannot just be ignored for decades.



  • If you want to have lucid dreams, set an alarm clock to two hours before you have to wake up and another one to when you have to wake up.

    With this two-hour interval you should wake up right in the middle of the dream.

    Once that works out, keep telling yourself that the next thing you’ll experience will be a dream when you fall asleep after the first alarm.

    With a bit of practice you should be able to get to lucid dreams.


    For what it’s like to dream: Imagine being in a simulation, and whenever you look somewhere or you think of something, your brain autofills whatever you focus on.

    Say you are on a beach. So you think “How did I get here?” and while doing so, your brain generates a memory of you driving there with other people in the car.

    “But who are these people?” And the brain fills in your wife and your son. “I didn’t know I had a wife and a son.” And the brain fills in memories of your first date, the wedding and the birth of your son. And so on.

    For me, the biggest tell that I am in a dream is that electronics UIs don’t work. My brain isn’t fast enough to simulate e.g. a working smartphone interface. They are always screwed up and non-functional.


  • That’s your problem then. A downvote is not a slap in the face. It is a very soft way of saying “I disagree” or “I don’t like what you are saying”.

    And yes, we do that in real life.

    There is no expectation that everyone has to agree with you, either offline or online.

    If you have such a big issue with downvotes and such an enormous misunderstanding what they are, move to an instance that has downvotes disabled and you will never see a downvote again.

    A downvote is softer than a negative comment, and if you think a downvote is a slap in the face, how should I interpret your negative comment? A kick in the face?




  • Tbh, not even that is guaranteed. Lemmy (or the fediverse in general) are really not that privacy-focussed at all.

    While the people running your instance might not be sifting through your data, nothing would stop anyone from doing so. Everything you post on Lemmy is public, and even if all major instances would somehow block scraping (which they don’t), a scraper would only need to create their own instance and ActivityPub would just deliver all of the data in a nice and easy to process way.

    The big advantage of Lemmy is that it is not controlled by one large corporation (and instead by a bunch of faceless, unknown randos on the internet), not that posting stuff publically visible on the internet is somehow more private.



  • Tbh, getting into lemmy is quite a bit more complex than e.g. into Instagram or other centralized social media platforms.

    Compare this:

    • Choose which social media platform to use and land on Instagram
    • Download the instagram app from the default store of your phone’s OS
    • Create an account
    • Done

    with:

    • Choose which social media platform to use and land on Lemmy
    • Choose which app to use. There’s like 20 of them, some great some not so, some active, some abandoned. There’s no guide or anything, so you’ll have to google and/or try 5 of them to find one you like.
    • Choose which instance to use. There are literally hundreds of them and you don’t even know where to start. You have no information, but this choice is central to the kind of lemmy experience you will get.
    • Google and find join-lemmy.org. Now you got a one-liner for each instance together with user count. So naively you sort by activity and land on lemmy.ml.
    • Create an account
    • Figure out what .ml stands for.
    • Repeat step 3-5 because account transfers between instances don’t work.
    • Repeat step 3-5 because you landed on the likes of lemmy.ee or feddit.de, and the instance closed down
    • Done, until your instance closes down

    Slight hyperbole here, but choosing an app and instance alone is complicated enough to scare away lots of people.










  • whereas conservative almost always look within their own ethnicity first

    Funnily enough, I don’t really see that happen. At least in my group of friends, the ones with the Filipino wives (and other wives from far away) are usually very conservative. They are then also very happy to talk badly about her family, her relatives and people from her country in general, but “she’s one of the good ones”.

    Maybe it’s due to the fact that they can’t find a local woman who’d accept them, and that way they get a wife with very conservative values who’s also happy to talk badly about her family/relatives/people.

    (Also, the fact that it’s illegal for Filipinos to get a divorce, with the only exception being if they are married to a foreigner and that foreigner starts the divorce process outside of the Philippines might be seen as a bonus by these guys.)