demonologic

Oh humblebrag, you know you’re pretty 😀 And you so are! I’m not even into guys (for the most part anyhow) but I’ve got functioning frickin eyeballs

What about hot bi guys? We… uh they’re pretty cool too.

Dude, own that bi-ness ❤️

I don’t think NSFW content is bad, I feel like in fact having different sections for NSFW posts makes community bigger because it attracts people.

Yeah definitely! Porn / erotica has been a huge factor in the popularity of the whole internet, too. Like you said in your post, currently lemmynsfw is mainly specifically porn; it’s an “easier” format than more conversation-based stuff because Lemmy really doesn’t have critical mass yet and the majority of people just mainly lurk and don’t comment / post (like it is with any social network.) Contrast this to the fact that there’s smutty chat subreddits that have more users than the entirety of Lemmy 😅

I did notice that a lot of people have “sex is dirty” mindset (elsewhere not here) and then they can get pretty rude and underhanded like anything goes because basically they associate sex with something dark and secretive.

Ugh I get what you mean. Weirdly enough it feels like younger folks are a bit more in that mindset than us old farts, like attitudes have gotten more conservative instead of less when it comes to sexuality. Well, at least partially, there’s good things too of course.

But yeah anyhow, could be that your best bet right now could be to try and be active on !chat@lemmynsfw.com (or others like it, I actually don’t know what the options are here for that stuff) like you’ve already done, try to strike up conversations? Might be a bit of a grind but you already managed to “activate” people a bit which is great!

Benefits of being a lesbian 😅

But yeah, lemmynsfw definitely can be a bit of a sausage fest. The Fediverse and Lemmy especially are niche enough that a lot of the users are techy types (like yours truly, heh) which does tend to still bring a gender bias with it.

If you have the spoons for it, you could occasionally post the kind of stuff you’d like to see? It might feel like shouting into the void since yeah, not a lot of women here (probably more gay guys), but every change has to start somewhere, right?

Might have to create and mod communities though, which is a whole 'nother can of worms if posting isn’t restricted

This is such an aggressively 70’s picture, love it

Me-ow you’re gorgeous. You’ve got such lovely legs and the way the stockings show off their shape is just 🤌

You have been well trained, my young apprentice.

Been a bit of a dry spell for like 3 or 4 years now because of Reasons and Stuff, so frankly just someone to tussle with for a bit would already be pretty nice. But I haven’t had group fun in even longer, and while it’s not exactly a novel fantasy it’s been fun the few times I’ve done it.

It’d be awesome to end up in one of those configurations of people (eg. at a party, usually how those random ones have gone for me) that suddenly devolves into groping and fucking, when everybody’s enough on the same “wavelength” already and then some little thing gives the group a little push 😁 One pair starts some sort of tomfoolery, and suddenly there’s not a dry panty or a flaccid penis in the vicinity and everything goes 😂

Said it somewhere else here earlier, but I’m close enough but not quite a lesbian that I jokingly call myself lesbian-adjacent, because I’m also not at all above eg. giving a dick a bit of a lick (although probably wouldn’t want one like inside inside me, but who the hell knows with me 😅) in that sort of a group play scenario. The dick or the man it’s attached to (wow that sounded sexist 😂) don’t as such excite me, but giving pleasure to someone definitely does. And there’s been other scenarios too that blur the lines, but that’s probably the nature of this.

Welp, bit of a ramble, but yeah. Some sort of totally random group play thing where I feel safe with everyone and we can really have fun with each others’ bodies, I’ll have one of those please 😅

Yeah I gotta chime in here too: you two are freakin’ adorable. Keep on keeping on, love your vibe.

Damnit, not sure I remember any specifics anymore, but I’ve had sooooo many good laughs over the years while fooling around. I think very few situations benefit from being Taken Very Seriously, and I’m always up for a little giggle – something like cancer is serious, fucking absolutely shouldn’t be 😁

Actually now that I think about it, a partner once stuck a big peacock feather between my butt cheeks (no, not in me) during an… err… sex intermission because she thought my butt looked nice but could use a little decoration. That was hilarious; since we were taking a break from the hanky panky we were both nude, and I was prancing around with that thing in my butt doing my best peacock act (which I can assure you is surprisingly good.) Eventually we composed ourselves and got on with the fucking 😁

Also a few cases where I did or said something funny (this is a load-bearing sense of humor) and had someone start laughing into my pussy while eating me 😅 A) it feels super weird but actually kinda good, B) but it’s so hilarious in itself that the whole thing turns into a gigglefest

Heh you’re probably right.

Remember kids, safety first: don’t stick anything anywhere you can’t retrieve it from if things go sideways. Don’t want to end up as an ER doctor’s anecdote

As a vagina-haver my initial reaction was definitely “welp, girl you better hope that candle doesn’t break” 😅