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  • Have you listened to any sports commentators? They all talk about <insert current game on tv> as if it’s the most important, world-changing event ever, and every little detail had some significance.

    My god, baseball is a game for (as Brits would say) boffins. Fans of the game could put meth-head ravers to sleep. I’ve worked on more exciting spreadsheets for business planning.

    And football has become just as bad, with the incessant pre-game/post-game commentary examining every nuance of a play - “I’m pretty sure if the inner aglet of his left shoe had moved the other way, we’d be talking about a completely different game”.

    Bread and circuses, appealing to our base nature. The difference between WWE and “actual” sports on tv is only a matter of degree.

    This seems relevant.



  • Excellent approach, putting that in my book of tools.

    I’d also be sure to ask the second person to finish what they were trying to say after person 1 was done.

    There are 2 reasons:

    1. Never know if they have a different perspective or other ideas. They may also have thought of something while listening.

    2. In the help desk world you learn these kinds of people get worse when they get shut down. If you actively engage them (even if you don’t really want to), they’ll feel heard, and maybe be less likely to feel compelled to interrupt. Plus you come across as a Good Guy® at work.