• kakes@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    Straight cis male here, and I’ve never even considered doing anything with a guy.

    I’m also not homophobic, which I only mention because a lot of people lie to themselves about that, but really it wouldn’t bother me if I was gay/bi/whatever.
    For more context, outside of sexuality, I would say I’m generally more “feminine” than most men.

    I’ve thought about it in a “logical” sense, like, wondering if I only like women because of society or if it’s an innate thing, but whatever it is, I just have no sexual interest at all in men.

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      9 months ago

      Because you say you’re more feminine, I wonder if it’s western society’s image of a “man” that you don’t like. I’ve been into transgirls since high school, but back then they had to be cis passing. Now that I’m 30 I’m less picky, and I’m even starting to like some guys with facial hair. There is something to be said for novelty, and if you’ve never tried a partner with a dick, how do you know you won’t like it?