• arnitbier@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Yeah they’re not just ‘touching your butt’, its a whole ritual objectification thing. Its abuse but hey they’re new to it so let them lol is what people are bullshitting with

    If I like to do it then its okay. And if its not okay its because its your fault. And if its not your fault, too bad cause I like it

    And the cycle goes around and around

    Its the narcissistic abusers getting off doing it and not respecting boundaries like adults that makes it contemptuous

    Reverse the roles and bam youre suddenly a price of shit. Its so pathetic to hear this shit nowadays but I do appreciate your saying that cause yeah, I have. Its really fine without the whole ritual, with it, its not okay unless you happen to be into that objectifying fetish bullshit

    Bringing that to peoples attention online stops the circlejerk and ruins "all the fun we were having’ and at others expense, and they get mad that reality is actually a real thing lol