I’m pretty new to Lemmy but it’s not as active as I thought it would be. When I came on here I expected posts sent within minutes but I’m seeing week/months between posts. I think we should try and be more carefree about the questions we ask. I’ll be trying to post questions and answering as often as possible to anyone’s questions if they involve something I have a take on. Dm me if u wanna chat x

  • HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    5 days ago

    I think it’s because Reddit has a strong grip in the NSFW communities (but ironically it bans people without reason - happened to us, and as stupid as it was, we’ll try going back maybe next year because the community is just bigger -, and bans subreddits everyday), and there’s really not a competitor. I mean, there’s not even a massive NSFW-focused (not paywalled) social network. I’ve read about FetLife but it seems to be too kinky-focused so OC mild and non-BDSM content would probably be not too welcome there. And then there’s a lot of paywalled communities that don’t have too much of an audience. At least there’s BlueSky, but it doesn’t have the convenience of communities/subreddits. Hope Lemmy grows now that Reddit seems to go faster to its own destruction