• RestrictedAccount@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    There is a book called “Tiny Habits” by BJ Fogg. He invented most of the techniques companies like Meta use to manipulate you and me.

    In the book, he explains how to use the same techniques to control your own behavior.

    I personally am in much better physical and mental state since I read it.

    You cannot beat yourself up until you improve. It does not work. It is a myth.

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      3 months ago

      Here is a large language model generated summary:

      Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything” by BJ Fogg explores how small behavioral changes can lead to significant transformations in one’s life. Fogg, a behavior scientist, introduces a method for creating lasting habits by making them tiny and easy to accomplish.

      Key Points:

      1. Behavior Model:

        • B = MAP: Behavior (B) happens when Motivation (M), Ability (A), and a Prompt (P) converge at the same moment. To change behavior, adjust these three elements.
      2. Tiny Habit Recipe:

        • Identify a tiny behavior you want to incorporate into your routine.
        • Attach this new behavior to an existing routine (Anchor).
        • Celebrate immediately after doing the behavior to create positive reinforcement.
      3. Focus on Small Changes:

        • Instead of making drastic changes, Fogg advocates for starting with tiny, manageable actions. Over time, these small actions accumulate and lead to significant changes.
      4. Celebration:

        • A crucial part of the Tiny Habits method is celebrating your success, no matter how small. This positive reinforcement encourages repetition and helps solidify the new habit.
      5. Ability and Simplicity:

        • Simplifying the desired behavior increases the likelihood of success. If something feels too difficult, break it down into even smaller steps.
      6. Motivation:

        • While motivation can fluctuate, designing tiny habits that fit easily into your routine helps ensure consistency, regardless of your motivation levels.
      7. Behavior Design:

        • Fogg provides a systematic approach to designing behaviors that stick, emphasizing experimentation and iteration to find what works best for the individual.

      By focusing on tiny, achievable changes and celebrating small wins, Fogg’s method aims to make habit formation easier and more sustainable.

    • VieuxQueb@lemmy.ca
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      3 months ago

      I can’t focus enough to read a book and of I try hard enough I fall asleep after page two. Guess it’s not for me.

    • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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      3 months ago

      Is the book and its methods intended for neurodivergent people? If not, it is important to be aware that it may have limited use to people with ADHD as our dopamine signaling in the executive function parts of our prefrontal cortex is all kinds of fucked.

      That said, I’m ecstatic to read that you found it helpful and really appreciate your correct characterization of one of the maladaptive coping mechanisms that we often try to use.

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        3 months ago

        I think when it comes to exploitation by corporate interest, having ADHD makes you 10x more vulnerable.