

It does kind of depend on who it is, imo. If it really is some random person who might not have even known about our relationship, then no. It’s not their fault or their responsibility.
But what if it’s your best friend? Then definitely. Both out of my life.





Irrelevant? Like hell it is. My best friend also has agency. They make their own choices, just like my partner. And in that moment, they both chose to screw me over.
Now, we could of course have a debate about who should get more of the blame, but that’s besides the point. When it’s a random person, they have no ties to me. I don’t trust them, love them, feel any connection to them whatsoever. They can’t ‘screw me over’ because they don’t know me. But my best friend? Our friendship would forever be ruined and I don’t think you can call that irrelevant.