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  • It took me two years to pick up five quarters that I dropped on the driver’s side of my car when I got my change back at a coffee place.

    For two whole fucking years, the noise, sight, and presence of those dropped coins irritated me and stole my peace of mind.

    It took me only a few seconds to pick up those coins when I finally decided to. I don’t know why I didn’t pick them up before.

    ADHD is a horrible disease and it makes life hard for me and for those around me.




  • quetzaldilla@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldListen and
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    16 days ago

    To clarify, my comment specifically is about superficial movie reviews, critiques, & recommendations.

    Criticism within the context of a movie discussion, presuming everyone involved actually engaged with the movie, is part of healthy dialogue & idea exchange.

    I’ve had my point of view changed plenty within such discussions, and brain dead people do not usually bother to participate in such forums so it’s a win-win.



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    Movies are made to tell stories that the directors and the producers feel inspired to tell. And unless they are a Marvel or DC movie, they aren’t always meant to appeal to every audience member, and it’s childish to think that movies should always cater to your every whim-- especially when people are so goddamn quick to judge things others worked really hard on so goddamn harshly.

    And before the “but mah money, tho!” shit-- that’s fucking capitalism, and not unique to movies.

    Not every movie is going to be to your taste, and that’s cool. What’s not cool is shitting on a movie just because you didn’t like it or it didn’t make sense to you.

    Reviews are meant to help you choose which movies you want to bother watching. Using the terms in the green column is helpful in giving the reader a sense of what to expect from a movie while avoiding a negative personal impression.

    The red column is very reflective of modern online critiques:

    Harsh. Impulsive. Thoughtless. Black & white.

    Often made without fully engaging with whatever is being critiqued:

    “I haven’t watched the movie, but based on the trailer I bet it’s trash.”

    “I hate Darren Aronofsky movies because they don’t explain what is happening and they’re stupid.”

    “I heard this movie was great, but I watched it and it sucked. Therefore, everyone else is wrong.”


  • It’s nuanced due to the nature of the work, so the gravity of the situation would only really stand out to those in the public accounting industry.

    For example, we provided payroll services for dozens of construction companies in the area receiving federal grant money, and that payroll could not be completed in time without me.

    Before I created the database, client contacts, client billing, project status, and client login credentials to reporting portals & financial institutions were being tracked in an unsecured Excel spreadsheet (as is tradition). I built a database in MS Access and it was pretty straightforward. The owner ended up hiring his nephew who was studying CS, but since he didn’t have much experience or an accounting background, he was of little help.

    There was further worsening as my colleagues started leaving for other opportunities, whom he replaced with questionable people until the firm was sold about a year or two later.

    We used to refer to him as detestable Michael Scott, as he was always blundering and blaming others for problems he caused.


  • Lol, I worked for one these assholes once. He bought the small public accounting firm I started my career at.

    He loved to go on and on about “business is a warzone, you must be ruthless” bullshit, liked to make it really hard to get any PTO approved or obtain new hires.

    Before he came along, I had built an entire database for that business even though my job role did not require it, simply because I got tired of doing things the stupid way and the previous owner made it worth my while.

    One day, the asshole new owner pissed me off when I asked for time off to go camping and denied it citing business first, so I simply resigned on the spot and took off to the mountains. He was like “you can’t fault me for putting the business first” and I was like “whatevs, I’m putting myself first”.

    Stupid motherfucker called me all week, dozens of times each day, because nobody but me knew how the fuck you build and maintain a database.

    My coworkers, who are still my friends to this very day ten years later because they are awesome, regaled me with tales of the clusterfuck that ensued after my departure. Turns out, it’s really hard to find someone with an accounting and a computer science degree.

    I still cackle to this day.








  • Tell ya partner to slack and steal as much time as possible from his employer, make careless mistakes, and cost the operation valuable time and money.

    That’s how ya fight capitalism: by making it unprofitable.

    Worried about getting fired?

    The truth is that boomers are dying or retiring, and there’s not enough people out there to do the work.

    Hiring and training new people costs a lot of money, and a new hire would want a salary just as high as a current employee, if not higher, due to inflation.

    Source: I work in public accounting. The rich do nothing but steal from the working class 24/7.



    1. Adobe for being greedy fascists.
    2. Nestle for committing crimes against humanity.
    3. Starbucks for being union busters.
    4. Walmart for being union busters and exploiters.
    5. Coca-Cola for being the biggest plastic polluter in the world.
    6. SC Johnson for knowingly selling asbestos tainted products to unsuspecting consumers.
    7. Oatly for suing a small family business that also made oat milk.
    8. Airbnb for driving the housing crisis that plagues the entire world.
    9. Chevron for selling oil stolen from Palestinians.
    10. Meta for being fucking fascists.
    11. Nike for using sweat shops to make products.
    12. Uber for exploiting drivers and interfering with public transit development.
    13. Whole Foods for being union busters, same as their parent company, Amazon.
    14. Apple for using exploitative labor practices overseas where they escape accountability.
    15. Wells Fargo for rearranging the order of transactions in order to cause overdraft fees.

    I could go on and on…