Same, after the second kid. We never use condoms, she was always on the pill, and its easier for me to get that snip and be done than have her deal with that fun all the time.

I’m sure there are others!

Not me, but… Others for sure.

Probably everyone who has an attraction to women and a few free moments… Myself included!

MMF hope here, we’ve done MFF which was lots of fun too. Well or MMFF, plenty of ways to enjoy things!

We’ve also only done DP on her with a toy, but she loved it - and so did I. Hopefully we’ll get the option to try a few more things soon 😉

This is pretty much my experience from the other side of things. Anal is fun, it’s mostly going in that feels incredible.

To note one big difference, if there is a toy involved (as in DP), totally different story - feels incredible the whole time! Now we just need another penis to enjoy and we can see how that feels.

In general, PIV is my go to, love being able to see my wife’s eyes, or how her expression changes while I’m inside her. That right there is more of a turn on than anything else.

And non-monogamy isn’t cheating. And saying “you’ll cheat on each other” is not friendly.

Don’t be shitty.

The apps aren’t there yet for this.

https://browse.feddit.de/ is a good way to search through all communities across all instances though. I’d search there, subscribe in the browser, then you’ll see it in your app (with a refresh obviously).

It will get easier as time goes on and lemmy (and the apps for it) get more developed.