Omnipitaph

Thank you for the reading list! I’ll take a gander :)

Okedoke, well I just learned that I have no concrete grasp of political labels and need to do a LOT of research.

Yeah, people suck.

You’re still not correct. Here

You are correct that 12:10 is 00:10, but that’s not what was said. I said 12am is the 24th hour.

Plop in 24:00 into military, guess what you get? 12am my guy.

I’ll explain why this is the case. 12am is marking the 12th hour of the evening, 12:01+ is counting into the first hour of the next morning. Same with 24th hour, 24:00 is the end of the 24th hour. There is no 24:01, it rolls around to 00:01 marking the first minute of the next day. 24:00 still exist though, it marks the massing of the last minute of the last hour of the day.

12am is the 24th hour, so yes it still works. I could be wrong, but I’m not.

I’m not criticizing your conclusion, I just want to know how you got there xD

furiously takes notes

Ah yes, the “wait for x turns and then throw a rook back in time” game. Jurrasic Rook.

Or my favorite, “I won? How? Oh, my queen just check-mated them 3 parralel worlds over and 7 turns ago”

“This is what happens when you lobotomize half the women, and put the other half on qualudes”, my partner xD

Really really hot lmao.

I believe in you!

I don’t know what your experience was like, I want to make it clear that how I handled my stuff def wouldn’t work for everyone.

For me, I found that it was hard to find a healthy relationship because I was attracted to and attracted abusers. It took me going open poly and having a lot of casual, relaxed, and actually intimate encounters with people to over-ride my insecurity and lack of self-worth. I was in an open poly relationship with two wonderful people for about 4 years, and had casual fleeting relationships with people throughout.

I learned how to set boundaries. I learned the language I needed to express those boundaries. I learned how to communicate my needs, and how to process experiences in a healthy way. I learned that there are no perfect people; that everyone has damage.

I also started doing “the work” by Dr. Robert Gibson. Its a series of 48 tapes that guide you through a process of introspection, so that you can face the hard stuff and move forward. It can be scary to look inward, and a lot of people avoid doing so and throw themselves into distractions. I did that for years, and I still struggle with it sometimes. If you look for the tapes, I warn you that they are framed in a pseudo-spiritual fashion, if that happens to be triggering.

At some point, I got to a place where I could identify what I wanted in a relationship. What I needed, even. I went out and found it, and am now engaged another four years later.

I genuinely hope you find a way through that works for you. Big hugs <3

One can only be so turned on.