1. Acknowledging that the people who hurt you are living in your head and you’re ready to move on. A lot of folks are unable to even get this far.

2. Therapy.

3. Truly internalize the realization that the act of imagining scenarios where you get to hurt the people who hurt you is like drinking poison with the expectation that someone other than yourself will be made ill.

4. living a good life.

This journey is difficult and requires a lot of self-reflection and maturity. Best of luck to you.

Love making complicated, beautiful cocktails for guests. Zero interest in being a bartender at a high-end cocktail bar until / unless I retire.

You poor Canadians don’t get to enjoy the joy of financially ruinous hospital bills or depending on GoFundMe to afford medicine.

I pity you.

As of this reply, of the 20 links on the frontpage of !comics@lemmy.ml … 9 are “Heathcliff Without Heathcliff”. Sometimes the comic has as many as 15 on the front-page.

The account spams the instance - I just don’t know if it’s an in-joke, the poster just has nowhere else to post an over-used joke, or the mods don’t care about spamming.

Done. Thank you, @CommunityLinkFixerBot. :-)

Used to use the word ‘retarded’ to describe people doing dumb things. Then I realized that not only was it hurtful to people with Down Syndrome - it was inaccurate … as a person with Down Syndrome would not do the things I was attributing to the phrase.