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Cake day: August 8th, 2023

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  • Not really in a comparable position, but I‘d like to give my two cents on the topic anyway.

    My wife and me have been together for about ten years now and open communication always seemed like an integral piece of what made this relationship work. Talking to your partner about what you want, or what you are into, will at least get you on the same page and prevent something slowly cooking up, to blow of the lit later down the line.

    On the specific topic, you should know best what to expect from your wife. But maybe you bolster up for an unexpected result. Maybe she’s more into the idea than you expect, and that might hit your ego in an unexpected way. Talking it through is still the best way to go about it, I just like to have several game plans laid out before I tackle potentially difficult topics. Helps me lot in building up the required confidence, even if my wife has the tendency not to fall into any of my preplaned scenarios at all…


  • Last week I bought a prostate vibrator for the first time. Reading about prostate orgasms for a while now I wanted to give it a go. It ended up a little bigger than I expected and I am really glad that the shop recommended the lube to go with that thing.

    It took me quite a while of careful stretching, relubricating and stretching again, but I manage to fit it in. Very strange feeling to have such a knob up the ass for the first time. Gave me some perspective on why all the girls are so hesitant to do anal with me, though.

    In the end I was a little underwhelmed by the result, it is an Ok feeling I guess, definitely stimulated me, but couldn’t manage to cum from it alone.