“Máax ba’ate’el, jach yáanal.” (No one walks for you, only your steps move you forward.) — Mayan proverb

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  • I purposely avoid using my phone to browse. Unless it’s something like restaurant review or urgent news as I’m out. I try to stay present, enjoy my space, and tell myself that I can just wait to look it up when I get home.

    When I 'm out and look around I see everyone just staring down at their screen. It’s annoying to see. So I decided not to be like that. Now I actually hear birds, feel breezes, take in sights and smells. And I take my time. For me pesonally, 100 percent improvement of life. I’m rarely ever in a bad mood now.

    People even mention how I always seem in a good mood. It’s because I’m not doomscrolling on my phone all day (like most of Lemmy does)! lol

    And when I get home and use desktop, I do fun things like create music, write novels, etc. Life is awesome without the 24-hour doom and gloom.







  • Donald Musk@lemmy.todaytoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWhat’s your ultimate unpopular opinion?
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    22 hours ago

    100 percent true. But I disagree that almost no one can do it. I think lots of successful people do it. I mean, the ones who went through a LOT of failure before they reached success.

    I personally have done it in my life regarding a few things. Stoicism is a great resources for doing this, in my opinion anyway.

    Basically you can’t always control shit that happens to you, but you CAN learn to control how you react to it.


  • Donald Musk@lemmy.todaytoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWhat’s your ultimate unpopular opinion?
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    22 hours ago

    Lemmy is not academy. This is a web forum, most of us are not here to do formal science.

    Great point!!! OMG! Daily I get variations of statements from people demanding I defend some random news article I’ve posted. I’m like, “dude, I don’t give a fuck, just don’t read it if you don’t want to!”

    Not everything is some logical political discourse with references. I don’t give a shit. Just ignore and move on if you don’t like it. lmao