If you’re into kink at all, I remember kink.com being great about picking out people into kink with various fantasies and organizing the shoot for them to live it out in a safe and healthy environment. They have several BDSM resources for those interested in getting into it safely and have a focus on consent.

I haven’t really watched porn in years though, so no idea if they’re still as good as they were. Now I mostly just read it, appreciate the art of pics, and exist in kink/sex positive spaces.