Or should I lose hope in humanity completely now?

  • CoachDom@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    In my experience, old age only amplifies person’s traits - if you were nice, you are going to be extra nice because of all the stress leaving your day to day. If you were a cunt, you are going to be extra cunty because now you will be blaming people left and right for all the errors in your life. That’s my experience though.

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      1 year ago

      exactly.

      plus people surround themselves with similar people, so as people become extra cunty they associate with extra cunt types.

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        1 year ago

        Never a truer word spoken - > you can always tell a person by the company they keep.

        Heard that when I was a teenager.

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      1 year ago

      I think people can grow and change. I personally used to be quite cunty. Mostly because I was self conscious and - ironically - sought validation. Now, I’m less that way. Thanks to therapy, self work, and medication. I like to think I’m nice, but I know I can still have an edge from time to time. I like to think I’ll continue to improve as time goes on!