I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.
Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.
We made one single friend lawl
We knew nobody else
Everyone was sooooo friendly though.
I will go again despite being insanely introverted.