Lemmy also has a misogyny problem, despite being progressive on most issues. Besides my own experience, I’ve seen this a lot in women/feminism-related threads.

Calling it “attention-seeking behavior” ignores the fact that this is just my posting style. You can go all the way back in my post history where I explicitly say I have a stream-of-consciousness approach: something crosses my mind, I look through my Insta saves for a meme that fits, and I share it.

Men never get asked to prove that they’re men or questioned like this.

It’s funny, comments like yours are exactly what I had in mind when I made this post in the first place. People can go wild with assumptions about my identity, but if I play into it for fun, suddenly I’m “seeking attention”? When men post like I do, people interact with the content; but when a woman posts, her entire behavior gets dissected and assumptions are made just to discredit her, no matter how harmless the content is.

And I wasn’t mocking anyone.

If I had a nickel for every time someone wrote a relatively long comment analyzing my online behavior on here, I’d have two nickels. Which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice.

personally it s very much a time and place thing. like if i’m wearing that to a place like a club i obviously want the attention and don’t mind anything as long as it doesn’t become dangerous. on the other hand if i’m just walking around during the day braless i expect subtlety.

for anyone wondering the vibe is

a bra similar to this a stylish blazer + miniskirt + heels + bag jewelry

it’s high fashion slutty

sorry, you’ll never see me post explicit stuff online🙂‍↔️

sigh… if you’d actually read that rule in full, you’d have been able to tell that it refers to technical/site support

i’m not a one trick pony, i have my fair share of non horny posts😒

the date isn’t happening anymore. he texted me asking if we could change the venue as he realized he can’t really afford that restaurant at the moment (???, why was this realization so last minute) & i told him no worries i can pay for everything. he told me no way i could ever let a girl pay, it’s not fair to the girl and also “emasculating” to him. hate that attitude. called it off and cut contact. thank u, next.

we talk about life, interests, hobbies, politics, small talk, random stuff; the basics, everything and anything. haven’t felt a gap in terms of communication

it’s a nice restaurant part of a 4 star hotel. i suggested it as i’ve eaten there many times before and i know the food and experience is bomb

yeah

i’m just exploring

I didn’t flag it because I don’t think it’s NSFW, since it isn’t graphic in nature. The community rules also say NSFW content is fine within reason. I’d rather post here to reach a wider audience than in a smaller community, especially since Lemmy is already relatively small to begin with.

True. That’s not what I meant. Some people just watch it for the action or the attractive bodies, without really caring who the performers are.

yeah

we had a disagreement over condom usage

it was fun but it s one and done as i disliked his attitude

the joke is the awkward small talk with someone you barely know & time + place of birth are used to create an astrology birth chart :)

feeling kinda sorry for him as he has work at 8 am and won’t get much sleep

Well, my Swiss passport gives me 45 days visa-free, and I’m planning to max it out. That’s why I need an “unanchored” travel partner.