Um, it is?
My partner 2023: some_guy, I want an air fryer for my bday.
My partner 2024: some_guy, I want jewelry for my bday.
My partner 2025: some_guy, I don’t know what I want for my bday. But I bought a robot vacuum; that will be my bday present. Also, let’s take a road trip.
No, but I spent a lot of time and money practicing to cook the perfect steak. Now I can eyeball it and adjust the time as needed for a splendid outcome. My partner does most of the other cooking.