• vzq@lemmy.world
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    14 days ago

    I’m a gamer

    Yeah, saw that one coming.

    Anyway, you can say “female” as an adjective all day. It’s the noun that has really icky nonhuman connotations.

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      Stop trying to force misogyny on me. It’s crazy that I tried so hard to convey the fact that women are valuable and needed, and now because of one word and the fact I play video games (and have for 25 years) you’re posting “got you” replies like I’m sexist.

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        Stop trying to force misogyny on me.

        Stop doubling down on misogyny then. You might not have known initially, but you do now, and no longer have an excuse.

        It’s crazy that I tried so hard to convey the fact that women are valuable and needed

        Perhaps if you didn’t double down on your refusal to use human terms when talking about human women, you might come across more like someone who genuinely cares, rather than someone virtue signalling for a pat on the back.

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          you might come across more like someone who genuinely cares, rather than someone virtue signalling for a pat on the back.

          Nope. I’m going to continue supporting women as equal to men, I’ll use male and female as terms to describe both, and if I do so without your approval so be it. I know where I stand as someone who cares about people regardless of gender and recognizes women’s rights still have a way to go (and are under attack especially now). As such I don’t mind you trying to tear down my honest support as virtue signalling because it’s just not true.

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        14 days ago

        My man. I’ve been playing games for 40. But I don’t identify as “a gamer” because, yeah, that.

        Anyway, yes, the words you choose convey meaning. Pick the ones that convey the meaning you want, or live with the meaning you convey.