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VanHalbgott@lemmus.org to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 year ago

Do people hate you online too?

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Do people hate you online too?

VanHalbgott@lemmus.org to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 year ago
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  • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.eeBanned from community
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    I’m pretty sure at this point I’ve made several people wish death on me, or at least significant misfortune.

    Being a leftist who believes in the civic duty to reduce harm through voting for less right leaning politicians does not make you popular with very many people at all.

  • Shadowedcross@sh.itjust.works
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    Probably not, but that won’t stop my anxiety from making me think everyone hates me.

    • mad_asshatter@lemmy.worldBanned from community
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      I don’t go to football games because they talk about me in the huddle.

  • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    People especially hate me online.

    • Weevil Friend@lemmy.world
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      To be completely honest I sought out a Lemmy frontend specifically because I wanted to tag you lol

    • JetpackJackson@feddit.de
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      I don’t hate you wesker

      • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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        You should!

        • mad_asshatter@lemmy.worldBanned from community
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          I just started to, Weskie Wanksie.

          • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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            Wanksie

            That’s the pseudonym I use when I do graffiti.

        • JetpackJackson@feddit.de
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          Why? You haven’t given me reason to. You seem like a nice person!

    • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world
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      hug

    • Alice@hilariouschaos.comBanned from community
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      why

      • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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        Probably because I’m beautiful.

        • Alice@hilariouschaos.comBanned from community
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          I agree, you’re gorgeous

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.social
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    No, but I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, either.

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      Hey, I recognize you! I’ll be honest, it’s mainly because of the font though.

      *shrugs

      • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.social
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        Well, good, that’s what the font’s for. I took that cue from Kolanaki within my first week on lemmy.

    • Alice@hilariouschaos.comBanned from community
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      But nobody is either

  • Aquila@sh.itjust.works
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    This implies people are hating you irl. Bro you ok?

    • VanHalbgott@lemmus.orgOP
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  • toomanypancakes@lemmy.world
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    Online it depends entirely on what I’m talking about whether I’m loathed or not

    I don’t usually get hate offline though, because I don’t talk or leave my house

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    I honestly dont know or care.

    I’m just some guy, I do what makes me happy, I do my best to be considerate but if my happy fucks up your day I dont care. If that isnt good enough for you, I still dont care.

  • TheHotze@lemmy.world
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    I don’t think that they hate me online, so much as they often misunderstand me.

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  • technomad@slrpnk.net
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    I hope I’m well liked, I generally try to make good comments and be helpful/positive if I can manage it. That being said, I also know I will not get along with everyone and that’s ok too. You can’t please everyone, it’s just human nature that some people won’t get along.

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    Probably. I don’t care.

  • Maple Engineer@lemmy.world
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    I don’t think anyone who knows me hates me. I’m pretty easy to get along with.

    Online…

    That largely depends on who you talk to. Lots of people dislike my opinions.

    Christofascists, white supremacists, white nationalists, racists, anti-vaxers, neo-Nazis and Nazis, anti-choicers, anti-maskers, Covid deniers, vegan extremists, incels and incucks, Puritans, the US Taliban, magats and the anti-reality crowd, the convoyists, the Save-The-Children crowd and Queen Dildo and her ragtag band of morons, PETA, the rabid pro-gun I’m-terrified-of-everything-so-I-need-a-grenade-launcher-to-buy-donuts crowd, and others seem to dislike the things I say. Of course tankies, trans extremists, the anti-gun crowd, and others who hate the first group also dislike some of the things I say. Just about everyone who lives in an echo bunker dislikes the reality I speak.

    I say things that many people dislike but they tend to be the controlling-what-other-people-do mob and people who live in evil bunkers but generally I think I’m a good person and the people around me seem to think so too no matter where they lie on the political, religious, or social spectrum.

    • Aecosthedark@lemmy.world
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      Who is Queen Dildo, please?

      • Maple Engineer@lemmy.world
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        The “Queen of Canada”, Queen Romana Dildo.

        • Maple Engineer@lemmy.world
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          Peterborough mayor Diane Therrien became embroiled in a minor controversy after stating “fuck off, you fuckwads” on social media in reaction to the group’s actions.

          I think that Ms. Therrien effectively summed it up.

        • Aecosthedark@lemmy.world
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          Thanks. Her wiki is… Interesting.

  • Kaboom@reddthat.comBanned
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    I get a lot more hate online than I do offline. Im also way more political online, so I guess thats part of it.

    • Alice@hilariouschaos.comBanned from community
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      I think you’re pretty chill though. You don’t ever seem rude from what I’ve seen Mr. Kaboom

  • 🇦🇺𝕄𝕦𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕕𝕔𝕣𝕠𝕔𝕠𝕕𝕚𝕝𝕖@lemm.ee
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    Online hate is interactive entertainment, its an incredibly enjoyable videogame.

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    I think people hate me more online than here, especially on Lemmy compared to Reddit. However, I find the people here who hate me are looking to hate in general.

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      • HobbitFoot @thelemmy.club
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        Thank you. I don’t hate you either.

  • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    They hate me online more than irl. And I’m under the impression I’m generally well regarded online

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